Am i dating an alcoholic
There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.
It is generally used for somebody who tends to abuse whatever substance or activity they take up.
Research seems to show that those prone to addiction (and this includes alcoholics) have certain personality characteristics.
This does not mean they are or are going to become an addict or an alcoholic.
But alcoholics, or those more likely to become alcoholic, will generally display more of these characteristics and more strongly.
They have what is called, the personality of an alcoholic.
Of course there are other issues at play in the development of drink dependency.
Or, maybe he was just a regular guy–but one who was willing to speak up. We either become alcoholics, marry them, or both, or find another compulsive personality such as a workaholic to fulfill our sick abandonment needs. We live life from the viewpoint of victims and are attracted by that weakness in our love and friendship relationships. We have an overdeveloped sense of responsibility and it is easier for us to be concerned with others rather than ourselves. To protect ourselves, we became people pleasers, even though we lost our own identities in the process.
These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who, is not ashamed of what she wants sexually, unlike the younger girls of his own age who are often confused about just about everything, including their romantic and sexual desires.
That relationship between a younger guy and an older woman is likely to be supercharged by a combination of the younger man’s peak sex drive and the older woman’s confidence, experience and her own sex drive.
Or college kids, because it was sold back then as a fun, affordable party drink.
Think Smirnoff Ice with a dash of Mike’s Hard Lemonade.